Menshouldarrywhentheyareyoung,andwonshouldarrywhentheyareyoung.Thishasbeenanunggprciplesttis.Althoughitisnowadvocatedtogectosandengagenewweddgs,paredtothe1960sand1970s,ithasbeeorexurioandthesiplectosofpeoplenolongerexist.IafroZhuzhou,HunaalkabouttheweddgctosZhuzhou.
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Matchakerestoproposearriage
Whennandwonreachtheagee,theirparentsfirstfdaatchaker.Whechakerdisversthatthereissooneofappropriateagethefaily,theyfirstunicatewiththeirparentsandthenscheduleadateteablddatelocation,uallyaarketpce.Onthedayofthearket,boththeanandthewoangotothedesignatedlocation,takealookateachother,sayafewwords,andshowtheircheerfulpersonalityonthespot.Generally,theywillreturnhoandtalktotheatchaker.Afteragreeg,theanwillchooseadatefagent(wecallitDgshithere).Thereisalsoatypethatisfavoredbyoneselforbyparents,suchass.Iftheyarereted,parentswillentrtanacquataoactasaatchaker.Inthe1960sand1970s,anysgotarriedruralareas,andthethirdrepresentativeofsiblgsgettgarriedwasore.Thisiscalled"newretivesgettgarriedwitholdretives",whichisevenorejoyful,butthiskdofcloseretivesgettgarriedisstillnotgood.
Theerequiresfourkdsofgifts,thatis,afewpiecesofcloth.Detfailieswilledaanddafabriylonsocks,andthosewithpoorenoiditionswillekhakiclothandttonsocks.Inthisway,eveniftheeissuessful,theangotothewoan'shoandsendsogiftstothewoan'shofortheNewYearholiday.Generally,thefourkdsofgiftsarethesa,naly,theBegngofSurFestival,theDragonBoatFestival,theMid-AutuivalandtheSprgFestival.Meat,eggs,noodlesAndapieceoffabric,afterayearoro,whenbothpartieshavenoobjes,thewoantellstheatchakerthattheycuttheshoesaple(thatis,theantellsthewoanthesizeoftheshoeswornbyhisfaily).Theangivesthewoansooneyforcuttgthesaple,whichwasonlyafewtensofyuanatthatti.Thewoaoakeapairofshoesforeachberofthean'sfailyandatchthewithhand-ebroideredsoles.
Preparationbeforeandafterarriage
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Beforearriage,theangivesthewoansooobuyadowry.Dependgonthefaily'senoiditions,hegivethewoanthreetofivethoandyuanatonce,andregardl